Problem fixed it was the o ring at the bottom of the fuel injector thanks too wildgoody or i would have never figured that out great guy thanks!
So the oring was not there (or not sealing) and allowing the fuel to be pumped straight into the throttle body by bypassing the fuel injector, right?
For future reference.....
The fuel pump relay just builds fuel pressure (by activating the fuel pump)....it doesn't control the firing or spraying of the injector (the ECM does that)....so the fuel pump relay would not cause the fuel injector to dump fuel into the throttle body (that is, assuming the oring is sealing off the fuel like it is supposed to).