About your oil pump.
I tried using the metal gasket but it just leaked time after time. After trying 3 different types of silicon many times I now only use "Ultra Grey" and have only found it at O'rileys. You want a silicon designed for aluminum to aluminum, high torque, and high heat. Basically a transmission silicon. Its been the only way I've been able to seal my oil pump and transmission for that matter.
The oil pan had also been a bit of a problem for me. The bolts kept getting loose and oil kept seeping from the silicon. I've found that after the first 2 or 3 miles the bolts need more attention, but only tightening to roughly 12lbs. I used "Form a gasket 2" the tacky version, for the oil pan. It took a good 5 days of 30-40 degree temperatures to cure, compared to to Ultra Grey which takes 24-28 hours. I haven't had a leak or seep of oil on my garage floor, FINALLY!
If I were in your shoes I would Ultra Grey the rear seal housing, even if its not seeping or leaking. I have found nirvana with this stuff on these aluminum motors. Even works with coolant.
Hope this helps, good luck with the build, and enjoy the time your getting to spend with your motor. Put good in, get good out.