Thanks for all the info guys...
I'll address the axle issues and get those things turned down, Now that I think of it, I heard a clanking while it was under torque which was probably the rear u joint binding up. I'll cut and weld the rear perches to gain the angle needed and I'm going to move the front shock mounts to the top of the spring plate and fab up some bump stops.
As for the wife, She's great. She definitely puts up with my hobbies and enjoys the outdoors with me. Once this is up and running she will see why its worth it...
Thanks again.