i went to autozone and they said they couldnt check my alternator bc they didnt have a plug for it. i put a new coil on it, new wires and fuel filter.(fixed a leaking fuel line also)
but i did get it running. after hours of stressing and rushing(it was sunny and in the 70's for the first time in awhile, needless to say i wanted to enjoy driving in the nice weather..) i put a new coil, plug wires and fuel filter in it then i thought to myself, hmmm maybe it could just be a blown fuse not letting the coil start the motor, there was a loose wire under the hood and it actually welded itself to the frame, made me thing of the fuse being a problem. and guess what it was, a freakin blown fuse!!! put a new fuse in and it fired right up. drove it around with no problems, alternator seemed to keep the battery charged bc i ran it for 30 or so miles and it started back up everytime. sat for 12hrs while i was working, started back up first try and ran my lights and turn signals with no problem this morning.
lesson learned!!!! sometimes its just the little things that can mess everything up. took me 3 hours of racking my brain, tearing stuff apart, trying different solutions and failing everytime. but im just happy its running again!