One of the more popular quick build is SPOA, 31" tires and Transfer case gears. Toss some lockers in the front and rear and that rig will go anywhere. Going up to the 32" tires you might need to do some fender trimming or go with YJ springs at the same time as your lift. That should give you room to run the 32-33" tires. I used to run a a spring over with trimmed fenders and squeezed 33" tires underneath. An extra leaf in the front kept the springs from over-arching and let me run that way for the first few years.
An easy upgrade for the axles is to switch to Chromoly axles, Trail Tough has them available for both the front and rear at an affordable price. From the sounds of what you will be running in though you should be fine, just don't throw it in reverse with the wheels cranked. I would run stock axles until they break, then upgrade as needed.
I would keep her licensed for road use, they are great for running around town in. Just not so much on the freeway. Then again, you probably don't have to worry about snow.
The old SJ-410 in 'stock' trim: