Depending on how its been treated, 90k miles is not too soon to be looking at a rebuild.
A "bit" of oil, is a vague amount. Some people have different opinions, on what equals a "bit".
Have you done a compression test? That would be the first place to start.
You usually see the oil burning more easily on a cold engine, as a warm engine will burn quite a "bit" of oil, without it being real obvious.
There is no easy way to test valve stem seals and they are a pain to change, while the head is on the engine.
I replaced the valve stem seals, on a 1.3 that was using about a quart every 500. They were hard, brittle and broke apart, when removed. It was smoking on deceleration and between shifts only. The consumption went down to a quart every 800. Not much of an improvement, or, worth the effort.
The motor is still running fine, but no longer in my daily driver.