Go ahead and swap them - the important number is the top one - the 33920-56B70.
The electrician is right, it is the ECU, the constant clicking is the main relay as the ECU resets itself again and again. Find a good electronic tech and have them open the ECU that's giving trouble - there's a high probability that it has defective (swollen & leaking) electrolytic capacitors - they can be replaced, and when that is fixed and useable, get the other one done.