I think it's 2 1/4". Because of the noise and family issues I had to put on a little muffler as a resonator, the stock system had a little resonator at the end anyways. Do a search here for pipe size, others have asked the exhaust size question and gotten lots of opinions.
The 5.13 (also listed as 5.125) are stock. You can find them in most of the Sidekicks. I used the diff's from a 1.6L '98 and it's been working fine, the article says to not use these but nobody seems to know why.
The swap is pretty simple, just follow the instructions. The front diff is the same, just bolt on the brackets from you existing diff to your 'new' diff and slide her in.
My anvil/housing for the front diff was all aluminium, your's might be steel. You could put the ring & pinion in your steel housing ($$), or just keep it for a spare (or sell it here to someone who pushes there tracker way harder).
When your all loaded you'll love
the difference the change in gears make.
I did not notice a big change in fuel use, but my commute is not very long and I have not put pen to paper to figure out my litres/100km. I try not to drive over 110km/h most of the time (60mph is about 104km/h) and the RPM seems to hum along fine.
http://www.zukiworld.com/month_030104/feature_tsb_shiftontheflyremoval.htm