I want to suggest you get help rather than ask questions on a forum - with limited experience you're going to be chasing your tail on this.
How quickly does the temperature rise? With a cooling system in good working condition, there is no coolant flow until the thermostat opens, and the thermostat doesn't open until the engine is almost at operating temperature, which could take anywhere from 5~15 mins or more from a cold start - the time frame will vary depending on how cold it is where you are. The way you say it rises quickly to the max makes me wonder if there is an actual overheat issue.
Get an IR thermometer and get numbers - how hot is the engine actually getting? Is it really overheating, or is the gauge misleading you? You can test the thermostat by suspending it in a pan of water and bringing it to the boil.
You can also remove the thermostat, reassemble the cooling system without it, and start the engine to check for a circulation issue - the thermostat is literally the only thing that should prevent circulation, so once it's out you should have flow, if not, check the radiator next, water pumps have been known to fail, but a failure to pump is not that common, in most cases, they are replaced because of a worn bearing or leaking seal.
Do not operate the engine without the thermostat on a long term basis, this should only be done for test purposes - if you're going to do it as a "get you home" measure, remove the center of the thermostat and replace the outer body.