80/90 gear oil is what I run in all my tcases.
I highly recommend twinsticks for the tcase (it allows you to shift into 2wd, when you are in low range). This is beneficial when you need the slow speed of low range, but you don't need the traction of 4wd. It also makes it easier to steer, when you are off road and you can turn sharper, when it isn't in 4wd on high traction surfaces.
If you don't decide to run twinsticks, then I would recommend replacing the tcase shift sheet. The brass one from ZOR (zuks off road) is very nice.
One of the guys I wheel with runs a kong and has used the stock rubber mounts. Nothing wrong with doing that.