Ok, the trany is on the bench and I can't see anything wrong other then there was no oil in it, I topped it off 2 days ago and drove 40 miles, less then a cup of oil in it.........I can not see where the oil was comming from , no cracks or wet spots on the case but the area just behind the trany was very wet, this would be in front of the transfer case. I looked at the rear seal on the output shaft and it is hard as a rock and if you try to bend the outer flange it will crack. So, I think my only problem was the rear seal and no oil, the front input shaft feels ok, no play up or down or in and out, no sign of a oil leak in front. I am going to go with a new seal and the case full of oil, if it still chatters then it will come out again.
The vehicle only has 65,000. on it so it should still have a ways to go before clutch replacment.
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