33x12.5 Pro-Comp XTreme MTR's, before that it was some old style BFG MTR's and 5.12 gears.
The ARB takes a ton of force off of the front end and allows me to run open most of the time. I don't even have power steering.
One thing to note, soft tires such as Swamper TSL's can hook up a lot harder then my MTR's and when that happens they will exert a lot more force. I like a bit of wheel spin when I get on the throttle, it means I don't have to worry about everything binding up and exploding.
I ran for 3+ years with stock front birfields with Calimini HD front axles (so I could use the larger spline ARB up front). Johnson Valley, Moab, Rimrock,and I wasn't nice to them. Ended up destroying a front birf when playing around at Evans Creek at a fun run and the rear axle blew up when I was backing off the obstacle but I won the hard luck trophy. When running Outer Limits in Johnson Valley the rig I was with, running 31" Swamper TSL's, Calmini HD axles front and rear and birfield cups, managed to break both rear axles and a front axle. A combination of the better traction, smaller tires and lower gearing meant that he could put that much more pressure on the drive train and something has to give.