Uhhhh - I'm really not sure about this - yes - upgrading to OME springs to cope with the additional weight is a a good idea, but I don't think that weak springs will cause the strut mount to fail, in fact I think it would be the other way around, but this is assuming there are no strut spacers.
If the springs are weak, the front end sags and on compression you end up on the bump stops - IF - you are running a "coil over" type strut where the bumpstop is on the strut rod, this transfers the load to the strut mount and can damage it - BUT - on these vehicles the bump stop is between the control arm and the frame so the strut mount should not take the hit - unless the strut has been spaced downward to increase the travel, without the bumpstops being adjusted to compensate.
Now if you use longer/heavier springs or coil spacers to lift the vehicle or to compensate for front end load, it is possible that the strut will be extended beyond mid travel with the vehicle at rest, and this can cause the strut to "top out" very easily, and since the strut is acting as the rebound stop, this loads both the strut and the mount.