Does your state have a "Lemon Law"?
Would the dealership or at least the company have to recognize a problem with the vehicle in order for the "lemon law" to be in effect? I believe you said the dealership could never find anything wrong.
Hampster, I know it was an "out there" idea, but did you ever see my post/email about a possible "hot spot" on the head (maybe from a clogged water passage or something)? I thought that might have made a cylinder hot enough to knock, but still have acceptable overall water temp. Just a thought.
BTW, I had a 1990 Dodge Caravan that would occassionally stall when the A/C was on. I never got an error code. I changed sensors, ignition components, etc., and could never solve it. I had it at several car shops and dealerships and no one could find anything wrong. It even stalled while one Dodge dealership had it on their computer... no error code! The wife got tired of stalling, so I finally sold it. The guy who bought it was never able to figure it out either. I feel your pain.