The white/red wire is not the exciter wire.
My suggestion would be to start by returning the wiring to the standard configuration and then either take it to an auto electrician, or have someone with a little more electrical knowledge that you & your buddy help troubleshoot it.
The starter has one function, to crank the engine & get it started - assuming a manual transmission, you don't need the starter; the alternator has two functions, the first is to supply the electrical power required to run the car and the second is to recharge the battery; the battery also has two functions, to supply energy to start the car, and to make up any shortfall in alternator output - that last function is what's critical here - the car will run with the alternator disconnected or non-functional as long as the battery has enough power.
The reason I'm pointing these out despite them seeming like basic commonsense is that based on what you say, you seem to be either misunderstanding what you're being told, or you're being misinformed - if you have a vehicle with a good battery and alternator, you can disconnect the alternator and have the car run off the battery, or, disconnect the battery and have the car run off the alternator - this last is not a good idea, especially on today's newer cars with fuel injection and lots of electronics, but older vehicles with carbureted engines will run quite happily with the battery disconnected.