Well, thanks to a fellow member local here (I emptied my messages too completely, so I can't give him credit -- thanks a bunch for Parker Imports; Stan was great and fast).
I now have a $175 set of $40 spark plug wires. But that's what you pay people for. And probably $500-$600 in repair and parts, and a lot of my hours in finding this problem. Now I have a shop for those times I am lost. Yeah!
To recap, I had the thermostat stick closed in early/mid December. Replaced the thermostat that day, but the vehicle started running poorly when it was warm (only), then got worse as time went on. I spent a lot of time troubleshooting and finally took the vehicle to a local shop. They ensured me that they had fixed most of the miss and wanted to replace the distributor for $300 plus labor. I decided that if it was indeed running so well a little miss was ok for a few weeks until funds came back up to level. I picked up the vehicle on the way to work (don't do this -- no time to review any issues;such as a window that was now stuck down, despite written orders to not roll window down for this very reason). Found that when it got warm it was running as normal, and all they had really done (besides the egr) was crank up the idle (and left the cap off; next to find one of these). And broke the atmospheric pressure sensor off its mount. clearly they had not driven the vehicle adequately before and after the repair.
After getting home and inspecting under the hood (finding the above) I called NAPA (a reason I went to the shop was they were a NAPA repair station, so I figured decent quality parts) and found the distro was $200; so I replaced it, no change. I then removed and replaced the intake, having found no bad gaskets, obvious issues, etc. Gave up, so I took it to the recomended shop. Now I have my Barbie Car back! SOOO much better than my F350 (it has a job: carry heavy loads, go straight, never pass a gas station). It does not turn. It will go to starboard and port, but only under protest. Barbie is like a puppy: noisy, jumpy, and spin in circles around that thing. Very annoying -- works for me.
Oh, almost forgot: I had replaced wires, rotor (another story here: two different rotor diameters, must specify), and cap in November with NAPA parts (the wires were mid priced set). The oem set still worked fine. The new set worked fine for a month or so. Coincidental failure really lead me the wrong way!
Too bad they don't make the good ol' basic two door anymore.
A bad set of wires cost me over $700!
Enjoy!