i took a look at the tranny last night, didnt have the tool to pull off the pan and check the filter but i did notice that the gasket has a little leak! i guess this will need replacing
but yeah, i will check the motor mounts later today then too. it doesnt seem to pop out of gear, i mean, when i turn slowly, you can feel like its slipping in the tranny, like its trying to grip something, im not toooo fimilar with auto but imagine driving a stick, when you have a six puck clutch disc and you verly slowly try to engage it, you can feel the pucks slipping by trying to grab a hold of the pressure plate? like you can actualy feel the rotating part in the tranny thats trying to grip.