I personally think your on the right track, but to fit a decent set of tires in the 235 range, spending all that coin on a elaborate lift really isnt necessary. Unless you stick something bigger than 235's on anything with 3" or more inches of lift you'll ending up having a top heavy rig that won't handle as well on the road, and look kinda goofy too. my 2 cents, of course. A four door, 235' w a couple inches of lift, minor mods to the drivers seat to get it back further, one with as many options as you can find, as low a milage one as you can, keep up with all the simple maintenence and the thing will take you everywhere you'll want to go in reletive comfort.
Or go for the good lift kit but at least go 31's in a mud terrian. But you'll notice the power loss at higher altitudes, and a real hit in fuel economy that even a gearing change won't bring back.
You may think now hell, I can live with 20 +_mpg, but I'll bet in the long run 235's in a decent tread pattern, moderate lift say 2", rear locker and getting almost everywhere you want to go with fuel to spare is a good argument for not going to extreme. The closer to stock the suspension is the better it will feel also. Go with a good quality coil lift or inexpensive spacer lift in the 2" range with modest 235's and enjoy the savings to spend on going places. Once again, jmho.